Social media is no longer the rarity it once was when it began. Nowadays, just about everyone is plugged in, sharing their thoughts, pictures, and even the smallest details of their lives with friends, family, and acquaintances. While this is generally not a problem for most, it can pose a major risk for those who are in the midst of a divorce and can ultimately affect the outcome of their case.
You might be wondering how something as seemingly innocuous as social media can negatively impact your divorce. Here is a list of some of the main reasons:
- Pictures can say a lot: If you are familiar with the old adage that a picture is worth a thousand words, then it should be clear that posting pictures on social media can say a lot more than a simple status update. Pictures can reveal your lifestyle, which might suggest that you are not fit to be a parent if you are engaging in questionable behavior.
- It reveals your spending habits: Of course, no one usually posts how much something costs on social media, but if you are posting about lavish vacations or your swanky new electronic device, people might assume you are a big spender and are probably doing well. This in itself is not an issue, but if you are fighting for lower spousal or child support payments, posts that hint at your expenses or income are only going to make you look like a liar.
- Your friends might out you: Chances are you share plenty of mutual friends with your soon-to-be ex-spouse, especially if you had a relatively lengthy marriage. Some of these friends are going to feel the need to choose sides, which means those that are loyal to your ex-spouse might share information that you post on social media with him or her. Since you cannot know for certain which friends are loyal to you or to your ex, it is best to simply not post anything that might be incriminating.
If you absolutely cannot stay off social media, carefully consider every post you make. If you would not want a judge to see it, then do not post it at all. Too much is at stake, so do not gamble with your future.
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